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Toddler lessons · Ages 3+

Toddler swimming lessons, at your own pool.

One coach, one child, in water your toddler already knows. We start where your child actually is — including if that means sitting on the step for the first lesson — and we never force a frightened three-year-old under.

3 coaches specialise in toddlers At your condo or a public pool 30-minute lessons Trial before you commit

Is your child ready? It is not really about age.

Parents ask us for an age and we understand why, but three-and-a-half is not a qualification. What makes a first lesson work is closer to this:

  • They can follow a simple instruction — "hold here", "blow bubbles".
  • They can be apart from you for twenty minutes without it becoming the whole lesson.
  • They can tell someone, in words or clearly enough without them, that they want to stop.
  • They are curious about water, even if they are also afraid of it.

Fear is not a disqualifier. Fear is the most common reason a toddler is booked in with us, and it is the thing one-to-one lessons are genuinely better at than any group class.

If your child is not ready, we will say so. Tell us their age and how they are around water and we will give you a straight answer, including "wait three months". We would rather lose a booking than be the reason a child decides pools are frightening.

What the first lesson actually looks like

No syllabus on lesson one. The whole job is making the water an ordinary place to be.

01

Getting in

On the steps, in arms, or held at the wall — whichever your child will accept. The coach spends this time being a person your toddler recognises rather than a stranger holding them in water.

02

Breath and bubbles

Blowing at the surface, then into it. This is the skill everything else is built on, and it is taught as a game long before it is taught as a technique.

03

Floating and moving

Back floats with support, kicking along the wall, letting go for a second and then two. Small, repeatable wins, ending while your child still wants more.

Why your own pool matters more at this age

For an anxious toddler, a swim school is three new things at once: a strange building, a strange adult and strange water. Teaching at your condo pool removes two of them. Your child already knows this water. They have walked past it, they have seen other people in it, and it smells and sounds like home.

It also removes the drive. A twenty-minute car journey either side of a thirty-minute lesson is most of a toddler's afternoon, and an already-tired child is a child who cries.

If you do not have a pool, we teach at public pools across the island and will suggest the quietest sensible option near you. Either way it is the same coach at the same pool each week.

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coaches who specialise in toddlers

Teaching a three-year-old is a different job from teaching a nine-year-old, and not every good coach is good at it. The coaches we put with toddlers are the ones with the patience for a lesson that goes backwards. Every coach on the team holds a current teaching certification plus lifesaving and CPR + AED training. Meet the coaches →

Questions parents actually ask

What age can my child start swimming lessons?

We start from around age three. That is not a rule about birthdays so much as about what a lesson needs to work: a child who can follow a simple instruction, be apart from you for twenty minutes, and tell a coach when something feels wrong.

Some three-year-olds are ready and some four-year-olds are not. Tell us where your child is and we will tell you honestly whether to start now or wait a few months. Waiting is free; a frightening first lesson costs you a year.

Will you force my child to put their face in the water?

No. Never on the first lesson, and never before they are ready.

Submerging a frightened child gets you a wet child who is now also frightened of you. We build up to it: blowing bubbles at the surface, water poured over the back of the head, then the chin, then the mouth. Most children take themselves under before the coach ever asks.

What happens if my child cries?

Some crying in the first few lessons is normal and it is not a sign the lesson is going badly. A coach who has taught hundreds of three-year-olds can tell the difference between a child protesting a new routine and a child who is genuinely frightened.

The first kind we work through gently. The second kind we stop, get out, and try a different way next week. You will never be told to leave so your child "settles faster".

Should I be in the water with them?

Usually not, but you must stay at the poolside where your child can see you. Toddlers often work harder for a coach than for a parent, and a parent in the water tends to become the place a nervous child swims back to.

For a very anxious child we sometimes start with you in the water for the first lesson or two and step you out gradually. We will discuss this with you rather than deciding it for you.

How long is a toddler lesson?

Thirty minutes is right for most children at this age. Attention, body temperature and patience all run out at around the same time, and a lesson that ends while a child is still enjoying it is what makes them ask to come back.

Forty-five and sixty-minute lessons are available and make sense later, once your child is swimming rather than learning to be comfortable.

My child was miserable in group classes. Will this be different?

This is the most common reason parents call us. In a group of six, a frightened child gets a few seconds of individual attention and spends the rest of the lesson waiting at a wall, cold and increasingly certain that swimming is something that happens to them.

One-to-one removes the queue and the audience. The coach can spend an entire lesson on the one thing your child is stuck on, and at a pace set by your child rather than by the group.

The same terms as everything else we do: start with one trial lesson and watch it from the poolside. We quote your rate in writing first, lessons are paid in small blocks rather than upfront packages, and 24 hours’ notice moves a lesson instead of losing it. If the coach is not right for you, we will match you with a different one — or you simply do not continue.

Tell us about your toddler.

Two minutes, no obligation. Tell us their age and how they are around water, and we will tell you honestly whether to start now. We reply within one business day.